Advised by a regular reader here you might wish to go here for a moment or two.
A more than usually shitty happenstance of life has led to two parents dying young of cancer (one gone, one going) and thus three about to be orphans. One of whom has just been selected to compete for England at the dance World Cup (that’s a real thing?) which would have made the departed parent proud.
Up to you of course but worth of considerations.