Was it planned? There’s something so gothic about being asked if your baby is wanted. Clearly the only response to this is, “No, so I’ll put it in the recycling bin along with the other unsolicited junk mail.”
As well as my two children, I’ve had the odd abortion and miscarriage, so this is not my first time on the pregnancy rodeo.
Given that one did, voluntarily, get put out for the recycling bin it seems like a fair enough question actually.