Modern mummy marketing is by and large geared towards heterosexual women in a comfortable socioeconomic income bracket. The mummy-targeted consumables shilled by celebrity mums like the Kardashians are deeply entrenched in anachronistic gender roles, suggesting that a new mother’s main role is as primary carer of her children.
Err, yes. A new mother’s main role is a primary carer to that new child. That’s why we have maternity leave, d’ye see?
This heteronormative approach to motherhood
A new book has re-ignited a fraught debate in France over whether gallantry is a “brilliant but poisonous myth” that must be jettisoned a year after #Metoo or a treasured Gallic exception that is the envy of the world.
Gallantry, which first appeared in France in the mid-17th century as a code of conduct between the sexes in high society and an art form, may have provided subservient women with a modicum of empowerment at the time but its legacy is perpetuating gender inequality.
That is the view of Laure Murat, a French professor at the University of California in Los Angeles in her A Sexual Revolution, Post-Weinstein Reflections, written in response to the rape scandal involving Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein on both sides of the Atlantic.
Ms Murat described the concept of gallantry as a “screen” that has helped keep sexual relations partially in the dark ages in France by stopping people thinking about “what seduction is exactly”.
It continues to be viewed by many, she said, as a central part of French art de vivre based on “asymmetric consent, namely that the man proposes, the woman disposes.”
The central point being that it is women who have that decision making power. This oppresses women, does it?
OK, perhaps we’d not expect the average male Plod to beat a special forces bloke in a hand fight but still:
Prosecutor Catherine Donnelly told Canterbury Crown Court officers Jessica Arnold and Marie Roostan initially tried to reason with Palmer however Palmer grabbed PC Arnold around the throat and pinned her to the stairs in the house.
PC Arnold told Judge Catherine Brown: “I have attended many volatile and aggressive situations in my time as a police officer and yet this incident is far beyond anything I have previously experienced.
“The level of violence that was directed at my colleague and I came from nowhere.
“I had just been assaulted and my colleague was being strangled, listening to me screaming at him to let go of her throat and hearing him repeatedly say he will choke her is hard to listen to.
“I felt a real threat that my friend and colleague would lose consciousness and that it was my responsibility to protect her.”
She added: “It was only the realisation of what he was doing I think, made him release his grip.”
Perhaps a more aggressive physical intervention might have been called for? If she were capable of it, of course.
Helena Kennedy: ‘Brexit is a disaster for women’
If leaving the EU is bad for women then being in must be good for women. Great, OK – now, what is it about being in that we cannot have – that is good for women that is – if we’re out? Won’t we be in charge of our own laws and we can have the good bits anyway?
The Nobel Prize Committee is better at choosing notables than the editors of Wikipedia.
Warrior women: despite what gamers might believe, the ancient world was full of female fighters
But while it’s true that the Romans would not have had female soldiers in their armies, they certainly encountered women in battle – and when they did it created quite a stir. The historians of the ancient world recorded tales of impressive female military commanders from across many cultures.
When something is rare enough to cause a stir then it’s not a world full of that thing, is it?
Love Island-obsessed teenage girls are undermining MeToo cause, claims headmistress
Why will people act as people instead of doing their duty to the cause?
Teenage girls risk undermining the “Me Too” movement by focussing on “trivial” things like make up and Love Island, a leading headmistress has said.
It is hard for women to be “taken seriously” when they spend their time “glorifying” pursuits which are “insignificant at best”, according to Jane Lunnon, headmistress of the £18,800-a-year Wimbledon High School.
So, this morning, a furore about Strumia at Cern, thee’s no gender discrimination in physics. He’s fired for heresy.
At noon, the Physics Nobel goes to a woman.
Elizabeth Warren will ‘take hard look at running for president’ in 2020
As Hillary showed us, reminding every man of his first mother in law doesn’t bring the votes rolling in.
A drag queen has accused Virgin Atlantic of sex discrimination after allegedly dropping from a gay pride advert because they “discovered” she was a woman.
Lacey McFadyen claims Richard Branson’s airline offered her work appearing in a promotional video celebrating sexual diversity but withdrew it because “they only wanted male acts”.
The 26-year-old female drag artist, who uses the stage name Lacey Lou, was contacted by Sassy, a communications company working for Virgin, to ask her to appear in a “remake” of the airline’s famous 2009 television advert featuring glamorous air stewardesses walking through Gatwick Airport.
I thought drag queen was one of those gendered nouns in the first place?
Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh faces a second allegation of sexual misconduct after another woman came forward accusing him of inappropriate sexual behaviour during his college years at Yale University.
The New Yorker magazine reported on Sunday evening that a 53-year-old woman, Deborah Ramirez, who attended university with Kavanaugh, has alleged that the judge appeared to have thrust his genitals in her face at a drunken party during their freshman year in 1983-4 academic calendar. She said she clearly remembers the judge, then a teenager, pulling up his pants after a penis was thrust in her face during a drinking game. She also accused Kavanaugh of laughing at her in the aftermath and has said the FBI should investigate the incident.
A police organisation specifically set up so as to deal with interstate crime should be investigating a flashing incident at college decades ago?
There’s no shame to these people, is there?
A list of jobs and professions prohibited for women in Russia is going to be amended in the near future, Russia’s Labour Minister Maxim Topilin told reporters on Friday.
The list contains 456 professions in 39 industries – mostly those requiring work with various chemicals, heavy machinery or complex vehicles – that are considered dangerous for women’s health. It was adopted in 1974 and last revised in 2000.
According to Mr Topilin, women will now be allowed to take jobs in six out of these 39 categories: bread-making, sea, river, air and railway transport, driving heavy trucks and specialised vehicles.
From memory, also not allowed to take a driving test while either pregnant or lactating.
Soviets weren’t in fact feminist at all, despite what we get told by all too many today and then. But perhaps more importantly, an example of how difficult it is to change the nuts and bolts of a society.
The article prompted furious debate on social media and widespread criticism of Buruma’s decision to publish on the grounds that, though Ghomeshi had been acquitted, he remained subject to multiple claims of violent behavior from many women.
Proof, courts, evidence? Pah, we spit on these manifestations of the patriarchy. After all, what is the root of the word testimony? See, see, SEE!
One of the harpies anyway, telling us that it’s men who murder, do these mass shootings, the patriarchy.
An employee at a Rite Aid warehouse opened fire at work on Thursday, killing three people before taking her own life, authorities said. Several other people were wounded.
The suspect was a 26-year-old temporary employee at the Rite Aid distribution center in northeastern Maryland, Harford County Sheriff Jeffrey Gahler said at a news conference. The sheriff’s office said in a tweet a short time later that she had been identified as Snochia Moseley of Baltimore County.
Krystal Watson, 33, said her husband, Eric, works at the facility and told her that the suspect had been arguing with somebody else near a time clock after a “Town Hall meeting.”
“And she went off,” she said.
Driven to it by the existence of the patriarchy, obviously.
‘Your father’s not your father’: when DNA tests reveal more than you bargained for
It does, for obvious reasons, tend to be fathers too.
Sure, intellectually we’ve known that there’s a lot of it about. But society has rather blind eyed it – certainly the law on such things as maintenance etc has. Especially the American system in places.
The thing is, now that we’ve this proof ability, is that legal system going to change? Logically it should of course but will logic make it through he accumulated special interests?
Apple has been criticised by feminists for designing iPhones which are ‘too big’ for the average female hand.
Other than being able to pick the thing up – not a claim being made I think? – what actually is the hand size restriction? And, if one exists, doesn’t that mean that the previous set of models were too small for the average male hand?
So good to see that all the other problems facing women are solved though.
Reading the story further though, they’re actually taking the whine seriously. Whut?
Just hours later, CBS announced that Moonves would depart as chairman, president and CEO “effective immediately,” and that he and the network would donate $20 million to supporting the #MeToo movement and equality for women in the workplace.
And who is the movement that gets the cash?
As a 115kg (18st) woman who refuses to diet, unapologetically wears short shorts and eats tiramisu, I have experienced and witnessed a lot of fatphobia. This is a form of bigotry that equates fatness with ugliness, inferiority and immorality. In my new book You Have the Right to Remain Fat, I talk a lot about how being fat has shaped my life, how fatphobia has multiple dimensions and how it does not just move outward – from us to others. It moves inward – from our culture to ourselves.
As with what is poverty, ugly is culturally determined. Modern Britain says that poverty is a better standard of living than he median in 1970 (certainly, 1960) an better than the top 10% in 1930. So too with ugly. What is considered so in the here and now is determined by us in aggregate, that culture.
Trivially so, as tans and freckles have moved around from Jane Austen’s time to today. Size? There are places (Mali? Mauritania perhaps, our own past certainly) when a good 3 to 5 inch coating of blubber is/was considered highly attractive. Even rumours that the internal pressure makes uglies tighter (would Rocco care to comment? Something more than just “With mine horses are”).
Of course ugly, as with beauty, is culturally determined. How the hell do you think it works if it isn’t that way?
Luckily she mentions this but fails to grasp the point.
Jacinda Ardern has defended making an air force Boeing 757 take an extra trip to the Pacific island of Nauru so she can minimise time away from her .
The New Zealand prime minister has asked that the plane fly back from the Pacific Islands Forum to pick her up, one day after her deputy departed for the three-day meeting.
The cost to the taxpayer of the extra trip – estimated at between NZ$50,000 to NZ$100,000 (£25,000 to £50,000) – has been criticised.
Ardern is still breastfeeding her 11-week-old daughter, Neve, who is too young to have the immunisations required to visit Nauru. The prime minister decided that while she could not miss the meeting, she also could not leave Neve for the full three days.
Whether it’s $00,000 that should be saved is another matter of course…..that’s what, the bill for half a unit of social housing?
Women should pay higher taxes and gain lower pensions:
Middle-aged women face a health timebomb and will need 5½ years more care than men after they hit 65, a study has warned.
Women now in their 50s will spend an average of 12½ years at the end of their lives depending on carers to support their daily needs, researchers predict, as growing numbers live with multiple illnesses.
If women, as a group, are going to take more out of that welfare state then they should pay more in, no? Today’s strong and independent women do wish to stand up for themselves after all.