Men, by and large, leave this subject alone. Somewhere it\’s a given that men don\’t have anything too reflective to say about sex, or they feel silenced by feminists. Where is the male Suzanne Portnoy, the male Melissa P? What men will write honestly about their highs and lows, their triumphs, their sexual sorrows? What man is brave enough to express himself freely about his desires? Few. My guess is that male sexuality has been so heavily associated with violence that men suffer an even stronger taboo than woman. Best keep quiet.
Umm, might I suggest Philip Roth?
You know, Portnoy\’s Complaint?