Naming no names but if I, as a 50 ish bloke, stuck my hand down the knickers of a 20 ish filly, uninvited and as, perhaps, an invitation to her to respond I really wouldn’t be all that surprised to find myself being charged and possibly even found guilty of some form of sexual assault, possibly even attempted rape or some such.
If I were a bloke doing it to a bloke I have a feeling that the drunken fumble argument might work. For we all do have a rather different view of male sexuality and come ons vis a vis female such. It can be, how to put this, rather cruder.
I take it that we have now firmly established this principle in law?