I consider myself polyamorous – but my girlfriend finds this hard to accept
She wants us to be faithful to one another, and I want her to feel loved and valued. But I also want more for myself
We used to have a much easier – even more understandable – description of this. “Being male”.
We also used to know what to do about it. Sure, OK, so, and no, don’t. Because that’s what being adult means – controlling some part of who you are.
As that line goes, “In my day we called that shagging around”