We waited until the fourth date to have sex. Leo then told me he was in an open relationship, but they were on the rocks. I said if you want me, you’ll have to end it with him. So he did. Leo has only ever been in open relationships, whereas I’ve always been monogamous, which has been a bit of an issue between us. I’m also only really interested in being a submissive bottom, whereas Leo’s versatile, and I’m conscious that an open relationship would give him the chance to flip more.
Waited, fourth date…..OK, different from how I remember dating being but then male on male sexuality, eh?
Gayers have dates ?
I thought that they just ‘got in with it’ .
That story seems like a load of arse to me.
We waited until the fourth date to have sex.
Why?
What a complex web they weave. And all this nonsense about being submissive and dominant. Dear oh dear.
In 2025, 4th date is still pretty late even for straight hookups.
I’ve told this story before, but it is worth recounting.
My late missus had a very gay American pal in Frankfurt. He was a fitness instructor and used to appear on local daytime telly doing exercises for the viewers.
She was in Frankfurt on business and dropped by one afternoon at his flat for coffee.
There was an unexpected ring on the door and there stood, she said, one of the most beautiful men she had ever seen. He was blond and bronzed and also super fit.
The conversation went along the lines of “Hi my name’s Dirk, I’m a friend of Pete’s and he gave me your details. I’m on a stopover, from LA to Johannesburg. I’ve a bit longer than I expected and thought I’d pop around on the off chance.”
She twigged pretty quickly that she was now superfluous to requirements, made her excuses and left to let them get on with it.
“I’m also only really interested in being a submissive bottom, whereas Leo’s versatile, and I’m conscious that an open relationship would give him the chance to flip more.”
Remember that we need to actively celebrate these people and encourage our kids to become like them
When they said what two adults do in their bedroom is nobody else’s business, we should have stopped it right there. Now, it’s parades and drag queen readings in school.