I’m a gay man in my late 40s. Since the age of 19, I’ve spent many, mostly enjoyable, years engaging in casual sex with other men. In my 30s I had a serious relationship that lasted four years, but it never fully satisfied me, in that I felt neither loved nor sexually nourished. The fact is that I have always craved casual sex. Whenever I start to date any man, when the initial excitement dwindles, I always get the urge to have sex with other men again.
No other male sexuality has ever been like this at all.
But…
Poor chap. It reminds me of that line in Baggy Trousers by Madness
“Same old backsides again.”
Seems a bit like the philosopher chappie who thought he’d written-down “The Answer” whilst off his face on LSD or similar… Then he sobered-up and discovered that, in some small way, he had…
“Hogamus higamus
man is polygamous…
Higamus hogamus
woman’s monogamous!”
🙂
There’s a couple of stories (possibly apocryphal) telling the tale of the man who writes the secret of the universe while under the influence. Often attributed to Oliver Wendell Holmes or William James, the substance inducing the delirium is described as either nitrous oxide or ether. The resulting message is usually recorded as “A smell of petroleum prevails throughout.”.
Have kids. That’s what ties men into a relationship. The shagging around stops when the nappies appear.
Bit tricky for the gays. In any case my subjective observation is that when a gay couple adopts a child it is already out of nappies.
It is also out of luck.
That two puffs can have kids provided by the state is already pretty sick. I know the argument, better to have two homo-parents than none at all – but is that really true?
From what we’ve read about over the years, it’s probably still better than being under the ‘care’ of the local council.
For some, that’s when it starts…
His ringpiece must be like stargate by now!
A wellytop, a phrase previously used in other contexts.
Who is Guardian’s audience? What demographic is this for, liberal white women?
That seems to be the target demographic for every UK newspaper.
@Baron Jackson
That one is due to Erasmus Darwin – lines jotted down on waking.
Whoops! Jackfield! Many apologies.