The Telegraph has heard a recording of the heated exchange taken by one of the pupils, in which the teacher starts by saying “how dare you – you’ve just really upset someone” by “questioning their identity”.
The pupil responded: “If they want to identify as a cat or something then they are genuinely unwell – crazy.”
The teacher then asks the girls “where did you get this idea from that there are only two genders”, adding: “It is not an opinion.”
The teacher said that “gender is not linked to the parts that you were born with, gender is about how you identify, which is what I said right from the very beginning of the lesson.”
She added that “there is actually three biological sexes because you can be born with male and female body parts or hormones” and “there are lots of genders – there is transgender, there is a gender who are people who don’t believe that they have a gender at all”.
The girls said they “don’t agree with that” and that you “can’t have” a gender because “if you have a vagina you’re a girl and if you have a penis you’re a boy – that’s it”.
The teacher interjected in a raised voice: “What do you mean you can’t have it? It’s not a law … Cisgender is not necessarily the way to be – you are talking about the fact that cisgender is the norm, that you identify with the sexual organ you were born with, that’s basically what you’re saying, which is really despicable.”
If we start from the point which is true – gender is presentation, feeling even, sex is biology. OK, so there are however many genders anyone wants and you can, by self-declaration, be any gender.
Sex is the biological immutable. So the teacher is right. But onloy in what she says, sadly she’s almost certainly wrong in what she believes. Because it’s fairly clear that she’s using gender to mean sex here.
Where this distinction matters is that some parts of life are indeed run by gender. “Mornin’ Miss” being an example. But other parts of life ncessarily run on sex – who gets the prostate felt, who gets the cervix swabbed, say. And there are those inter- bits where folk are still arguing. Are changing rooms to be judged by gender or sex (sex says me)?
Shrug.