A nurse who was disciplined for calling a transgender paedophile “Mr” is facing dismissal for allegedly speaking publicly about her ordeal.
Jennifer Melle, 40, was issued with a final written warning after misgendering the patient at St Helier Hospital in Carshalton, Surrey, in May 2024.
Ms Melle said she referred to the individual, an inmate from a high-security men’s prison listed as male on their medical record, as “Mr” and “he” while discussing the use of a catheter.
She told them: “Sorry I cannot refer to you as ‘her’ or ‘she’, as it’s against my faith and Christian values but I can call you by your name.”
The use of a catheter would seem to be one of those times when biological sex – in hte absence of anyone having had the chop – was the operating necessity, no?
But being sensible isn’t any part of gender politics now, is it?
There are lots of rhymes you can use during the reign of Chuck3 but I think two-tier is turning out to be a fundemental error. There are many, many tiers. In fact, if multidimensonal weren’t such a clumsy non rhyming phrase it’s the one I might choose. Think of the poor nurse spending hours trying to find the lady’s vagina. Thinking about it, that’s the option I would choose if I were Ms Melle, ignoring the bloke’s screams of agony as his bladder burst. “I’m sorry Miss, normally I’m quite good at finding such a familiar orifice because I’ve got one too, but you’ve got me completely stymied”…
It is indeed multidimensional. “Intersectional” in Wokistani.
If he’s not a castrato he’s just a female impersonator.
And if he is a castrato he’s just a bloke sans bollocks.
I use “castrato” in a broader sense – all the wedding tackle removed. It’s good enough for government work as our American friends say.
Even then, he’s still a bloke, just sans all the wedding tackle.
If a bloke were to have his tackle blown off by a bomb or bitten off by a tiger, would that make him a woman?
Well to be fair, she shouldn”t have called him Mr.
Far too much respect implicit in that title.
She should have chosen a more appropriate title.
Scummy or?
Not wishing ill on anybody, I can’t help but wonder why we don’t say ‘fair enough, you want to be treated as a woman so we won’t check or treat for testicular / prostate cancer then’.
Ditto ‘men’ with tits / ovaries etc.
It’d soon sort out the men from the boys…..
Should have used a female catheter. From Google:
“The main difference is length, driven by urethral anatomy: male catheters are longer (around 40cm) due to longer urethras, while female catheters are shorter (around 15-20cm) for shorter urethras, with some women preferring longer ones for easier handling, but men must never use female catheters as balloon inflation in the urethra causes severe trauma. “
“Well you didn’t want that ladypenis anyway, did you, madam?”
At least in part it’s really about making you comply with a silly ritual. Like with the face diapers:
Is there any scientific evidence that these work against a respiratory virus? – Shut up & put it on
Aren’t the gaps in the mask 100X bigger than virus particles? – Shut up & put it on
Don’t these things force me to breathe in more CO2 and other unhealthy stuff? – Shut up & put it on
“Aren’t the gaps in the mask 100X bigger than virus particles?” That’s irrelevant. In increasing order of importance (i) Are the pores in the mask much bigger than the tiny aerosol droplets that the virus is transported in? and (ii) Does the size of the pores matter when the masks fit so badly that there’s usually enough room at the edges for a beetle to crawl in?
That the masks don’t work had been known for ages before Covid.
I remember in 2020 seeing a photo of a bloke in a surgical mask exhaling a lungful of vape. He looked like the Flying Scotsman.
That masks don’t work ought to be evident to anyone wearing glasses, annoyed by them steaming up.
There is no such thing as ‘gender politics’.
This is about dividing men and women, splitting up families, confusing and demoralising the population, and control.
Orwell saw this many years ago – ‘The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command’ – and we should not be playing into their hands, even for jokes.
*I’m not sure what authorised dictionaries have to say about this – they may define the word ‘control’ in some way that pleases lickspittles, pretend Tories, and coppers’ narks.
Yes the mind virus of trannyism is directed towards an end – using the discontented and confused as bioweapons against Western civilisation.
They’re the suicide bombers of Wokeness, having sacrificed their dignity and functioning genitals for the cause, now shrieking like orcs whenever a handful of elderly lesbians try to have a meeting in London. That’s how nearly every single one of these people is fully indoctrinated into Current Thing politics and supports the Greens or Labour.
Trannyism destroys families on purpose, as with rapefugee hotels in every town it’s about aggressively dissolving normal familial and societal bonds. And as with replacement immigration the offensive gaslighting and constant lying is part of the plan too, to try to make you feel isolated, helpless, and disoriented in what used to be your own society, and to terrorise us with speech crimes and the humiliation ritual of pretending that evil, destructive things should be praised and celebrated.
It’s rather clever, actually. When you examine the Devil’s handiwork, it’s often quite impressive. The rise of transgenderism from 2015 to 2025 was a predictable and predicted social catastrophe, but very cleverly packaged and introduced so that it happened anyway.
“and we should not be playing into their hands, even for jokes.“
I’ve started with the ubiquitous surveys that ask for your gender – the best are those that offer a choice of male, female or ‘other’ and give you a box to put your made up nonsense in – ‘I refuse to plays the stupid game’ goes in that one!
a transgender paedophile
That thing which never happens!
“an inmate from a high-security men’s prison”
So, bored and wanting to do some suing at the state’s expense. Gets him out of prison for testimony (or maybe just to the visiting area).
Also gets the attention he craves.
Not to mention more money for the human rights lawyers which TTK wants to boost. I won’t say “work” because none of it actually helps anyone.
There should be no tribunals deciding crap like this. If you haven’t been grossly negligent in medical terms you shouldn’t have to fight for your job over trivialities. But you upset a patient with a chip on his shoulder. So what? Offence unmeant is no offence at all. And in uncertain cases there are other levels of punishment. No, how about a law forbidding feigning offence or taking offence unreasonably. With real penalties.
If someone is offended, it’s because they choose to be offended, as opposed to a simple disagreement. In the words of Ricky Gervais (PBUH), ” Just because you’re offended doesn’t make you right “
K. That’s it. Time for Great Britain to end. You have demonstrated that you cannot function in a civilized world.
But you do know Big Trans came from America, your country had appointed Admiral Rachel Levine to be a senior government official until recently, and TERF Island has long been the global resistance HQ to genderism?
Biden’s excesses set the stage for Trump’s win.
Indeed, this could never have started here. Like Wokeness in general, and the George Floyd excitement in particular, it could only have started in America.
Until the very recent Trump Restoration, the United States was the global leader in progressive insanity. They might not have socialist healthcare or stupidly expensive electricity, but all the destructive Western social trends of the 20th c. came with Uncle Sam’s seal of approval. “Culture Wars” wasn’t a British or Euro invention. But naturally, the United States isn’t just the Hegemon, it’s the cultural capital of the Western world. Europeans seethe about this, whilst sipping Starbucks, wearing blue jeans, and binge watching Friends on Netflix.
So European liberals mentally live in the USA anyway because they consume TV slop and obsessively scroll Twitter. That’s how come they feel entitled to fly to your country and lecture people about politics. They copied all your latest American fashions, our business only adopted Homosexual Pride Month because American businesses did it first. Then, as quick as you can say “I can’t breathe”, the unfortunate death of a career criminal thousands of miles away in the United States meant we had to do mandatory racial struggle sessions with professional Black people we’d never met before hired to tell us all about our unconscious racism.
The racial struggle sessions are over, that’s so 2021 now and the career smart thing is to never mention it again. This week, we are mostly sacking people and saying AI will replace them (Actually Indians). How fads change, corporate Pride month was also the most muted I’ve seen last year. Not even a single workshop about gender pronouns. Now, Euro lefties are angry and confused, because the US is no longer the mothership for the latest kewl ideas such as vandalising statues, angry turbo-feminism, and eco-piousness. They’re not sure who to copy now. The French? Ewwww.
Same applies to many of the other trendy things destroying western civilisation:
Frankfurt school marxists- turbocharged once given a home at Columbia University.
Sierra Club / Greenies- loads of spin offs & Judean peoples fronts but the money/impetus started to gain traction with them first.
USAID one of the biggest funders of destructive shyte across the planet was US funded.
No one is innocent, but the current trope to try to shift all the blame onto indolent Europeans doesn’t wash.
Your flattery will get you nowhere.
I cannot understand why people think that such stubbornness is acceptable. If a patient appears and says he’s the Emperor Napoleon, why not refer to him as “Mr Emperor”? Similarly, if a man claims to be a woman, why not just go along with it? It seems to me to be just basic politeness. You refer to people using the terms they find acceptable.
I feel no obligation to do so – am I to enquire of every person I meet how they’d prefer to be addressed? And I definitely don’t intend to buy Mr Napoleon a white charger, a greatcoat and a cocked hat on the NHS.