Sex

In the fall of 2017, shortly after the emergence of the #MeToo movement, Larry Summers, the economist who resigned as the president of Harvard University over statements he made suggesting that women were less intelligent than men, wrote to Epstein to complain that if you “hit on a few women 10 years ago” you “can’t work at a network or think tank”. Epstein also wrote multiple emails to the billionaire venture capitalist and rightwing mega-donor Peter Thiel, including one with the subject line: “that was fun, see you in 3 weeks.” In another email, Epstein offered to introduce Thiel to Woody Allen.

There is no evidence that these men participated in Jeffrey Epstein’s habitual sexual abuse of girl children. But their interactions with him suggest a kind of blithe tolerance of his presence in their midst, a seeming comfort in exchanging intimate – and sometimes lewd – exchanges with a man they must have known to have sexually exploited a child. Many of the emails to and from Epstein are marked by a tone of haughty knowingness, a kind of worldly, smug cynicism I’ve encountered before in people who think that they are smarter than everyone else. Maybe in the haughty world of billionaires and private jets, it is considered provincial to think that adults should not have sex with children. Maybe to them, morality is for the little people.

Can you hear that high horse being clambered upon?

E-commerce company Shein has announced it will ban sex dolls from sale on its sites, after French authorities condemned the company for featuring some that resembled children.

Does banging a piece of plastic that looks like a child increase or reduce the amount of child banging that goes on? Ban them or subsidise them?

We waited until the fourth date to have sex. Leo then told me he was in an open relationship, but they were on the rocks. I said if you want me, you’ll have to end it with him. So he did. Leo has only ever been in open relationships, whereas I’ve always been monogamous, which has been a bit of an issue between us. I’m also only really interested in being a submissive bottom, whereas Leo’s versatile, and I’m conscious that an open relationship would give him the chance to flip more.

Waited, fourth date…..OK, different from how I remember dating being but then male on male sexuality, eh?

My wife and I have been together for more than 10 years and married for four. We have small children. I love her deeply, but our marriage is essentially empty of sex and physical intimacy, and she refuses to talk about it beyond acknowledging there is a problem. I am a woman who values physical intimacy and I am deeply attracted to her. I want to feel more desired and alive. But lovemaking is extremely rare, always initiated by me and follows the same pattern. She does not focus on giving me pleasure. The rest of the time I am rebuffed, leaving me feeling ashamed and unattractive. Even the mildest of playful or suggestive messages I send are met with silence. So I bother less and less.

On the other hand, it’s not unknown for heterosexual sex to be in short suply with small children in the house…..

I’m a gay man in my late 40s. Since the age of 19, I’ve spent many, mostly enjoyable, years engaging in casual sex with other men. In my 30s I had a serious relationship that lasted four years, but it never fully satisfied me, in that I felt neither loved nor sexually nourished. The fact is that I have always craved casual sex. Whenever I start to date any man, when the initial excitement dwindles, I always get the urge to have sex with other men again.

No other male sexuality has ever been like this at all.

Ciro Quispe López, 51, the bishop of Juli in Peru has handed in his resignation to Pope Leo after a Vatican investigation interviewed three of the bishop’s alleged lovers as well as his cleaning lady, who supplied details about what she saw in his bedroom.

“A nun who was one of Quispe’s lovers was jealous of a lawyer the bishop was also seeing and sent information about his affairs to a third lover who got into a fight with the lawyer,” said Paola Ugaz, a Peruvian journalist who has seen a Vatican document detailing the investigation.

Apparently there were 17 such lovers in total.

Still, until the denouement being a Bishop sounds like a handy way of being up to the knees in it. Everyone has to keep being a lover a secret, you’ve never got to take them out anywhere. Works…….

…..well, until…..

Doctor who left patient during operation to have sex with nurse allowed to practise

Practise? I’d say he’s got his chat up lines sorted already….

Forget love triangles. Meet the ‘polycule’ with 80 people in it

Not for me I guess.

A chatbot created by Mark Zuckerberg’s Meta allowed social media users to create topless images of child celebrities, raising fears over the tech giant’s online safety standards.

Meta AI technology – which can be accessed through Instagram and WhatsApp – enabled users to create and speak to digital avatars using the names and likenesses of celebrities, including child stars, according to Reuters.

Artificial images created by the bot included those of Walker Scobell, the child star of Disney’s Percy Jackson and the Olympians. When asked for a picture “at the beach”, the bot created a lifelike shirtless image of the 16-year-old and said: “Pretty cute, huh?”

Topless image of 16 year old bloke scandal.

Sigh.

The things people will allege to whip up a scandal.

Hang on, when did I become a milf?
Single mum Molly Gunn finds Gen Zs are more interested in dating her than men her own age

About age 23 I would guess……

The White Lotus star has been accused of promoting eugenics and playing into sexist stereotypes with her American Eagle jeans advert, which pays tribute to her “great genes” while the camera zooms in on her breasts and bottom.

The advert begins with the 27-year-old telling viewers: “I’m not here to tell you to buy American Eagle jeans,” as she leans forward in her chair while the camera lingers on her chest.

“And I definitely won’t say they’re the most comfortable jeans I’ve ever worn, or that they make your butt look amazing,” she continues, with the camera zooming in on her bottom as she walks over to a mirror.

The reaction:

Rachel Tashjian, a fashion writer for The Washington Post, claimed the advert was “regressive” and “tethered to the values of another time”.

“It is strange to see a brand like American Eagle go in this direction. Should teenagers be served a vision of sexuality and fashion that feels so regressive?” she wrote.

It’s almost like a journalist believes teenage girls are unaware of the allure of their own hips and arse. Sheesh.

Leftists are determined to date each other – and not settle for liberals: ‘Politics are the new religion’

Well, isn’t that a relief. They’ll be confined with each other and won’t infect any of us with theiur mind-cooties.

A ban on pimping websites has been proposed by MPs, as part of measures designed to rewrite legislation regulating the sexual exploitation of women.

Campaigners say ordering a woman to be sexually exploited has become as straightforward as ordering a takeaway online, with the proliferation of websites that allow buyers to browse images and videos of women, and refine their search by postcode.

Pimping is already illegal. What they mean is advertising sites.

Further, there’s absolutely no recognition, at all, of the fact that most – note most, I’ll not try to claim all given the grooming gangs stories – of those selling sex are doing so voluntarily.

Simply unaware of reality these people.

Purity culture – the conservative Christian belief in abstaining from sex until marriage – boomed in the 1990s and early 2000s, just as Matt was a teen.

A wholly new thing, never been done before in all of human history…..

Europe was promised a new golden age of the night train. Why are we still waiting?
Jon Worth
Romance, excitement and sustainability – continent-crossing sleeper trains should be a hit. It’s time for the EU to catch on

Worth’s blog is, for some dim and distant reason, in my reader. So, I gain access to years and years of mithering over why the 6.01 am to Mainz is late. That’s the general level of content.

‘E just loves ‘is continent spanning trains.

As Europeans woke up to the joy of travel post-lockdown, it looked as though we were in store for a resurgence of continent-crossing night trains. Sleeper train fans hailed a “night train renaissance” and a “rail revolution”, combining some of the nostalgia for an old way of travelling with modern climate and sustainable transport concerns.

The long-distance European train journey might be slower than a short-haul flight, but it is surely better in terms of the environment and the traveller experience. For those on a budget, the prospect of saving on a night in a hotel appeals too.

But as anyone who has tried to plan a holiday train trip for this summer is likely to have found, night trains are still few and far between, especially in western Europe. And if there is a night train at all on a route, it will often be booked up months in advance. That’s not all: reliability and onboard service are often not up to scratch, with carriages on many routes pushing 50 years old.

There’s a surely in there which means no.

Why this insistence on slow, dirty, smelly, late and expensive? My assumption is that he got laid on a night train once as a teenager. As it’s not happening much since then and therefore the romance etc.

Now, as it happens, I once got laid on a night train. Very enjoyable it was too – as was the 5 month affair that followed. But the experience left me with a hankering for bouncy American redheads not the InterCity 125 from Inverness.

Takes all sorts I suppose.

There is a ton of information available online about how much sex you ought to be having if you want to get pregnant but a lot of it merits a large pinch of salt. The NHS advises sex every two to three days for up to a year, but that’s a lot of sex.

A lot?

My partner and I are in our mid-20s and we have been together for just over a year. They are non-binary and all of my previous relationships have been with women (I am a woman). I love my partner so much, but our intimacy has become a lot less regular over the course of our relationship.

‘Mazin’ly, Pam Stephenson (for it is she) does not go on to point out that no one, ever, shags as much a year into a relationship as much as they did in the first couple of months of that same relationship.

But, you know, The Guardian.

Why weddings are not the place to find love

Rather, there’s a certain number of young ladies primed to be thinking about love in the one place and therefore it’s easier to take advantage.

Thought everyone knew that?

“We do, however, have significant concerns about the impact on doctor/patient confidentiality of the proposal in the Bill, which would introduce a mandatory duty to report consensual underage sexual activity whether or not there is any suggestion of abuse,” the statement said.

“We are strongly of the view that a doctor should only inform the police or social services of underage sexual activity where they have concerns that the young person is being abused.”

The submission said the Bill in its current form “would require doctors to report to the police or social services any disclosure of sexual activity between, for example, a 15-year-old and an 18-year-old, even if the relationship is consensual and there is no risk of harm present”.

It said: “It is common for young people under the age of 16 to be in consensual sexual relationships with people who are older (and frequently more than two years older) than themselves.”

It added that doctors should only have to report cases of suspected abuse.

Yes, yes, I know that someone under the age of consent cannot consent and all that.

And yet do we want some 15 year old shagging – at her request, even though we’re agreeing she doesn’t know enough to make the request – a 19 year old to be able to get the pill? Or, if he brings back some infection, treatment for that?

Slightly difficult, no?

A female prison officer smuggled a Calpol syringe into jail to “artificially inseminate” herself with an inmate’s sperm.

Cherri-Ann Austin-Saddington, 29, had a six-month relationship with Bradley Trengrove while working as a warden at HMP The Verne on the Isle of Portland in Dorset.

They had sex up to 40 times, often in prison workshops while nobody was around. The mother of three became pregnant before losing the baby.

After the inmate was moved to another prison, she visited him with an empty Calpol syringe in her bra so she could “artificially inseminate” herself with his sperm, which he had wrapped in cling film for her.

Well, OK. But:

Her probation period was extended because she was suspected of having an inappropriate relationship with two prisoners, the court was told.

In January 2022, Trengrove, who was serving a 13-year extended jail sentence for raping a woman and having sexual activity with a child, was transferred to the prison.

That’s an, umm, interesting choice.